Are You An Adrenaline
Junkie?
"Slow
down and enjoy
life. It's not only the scenery you miss by going too fast-you also miss the
sense of where you are going and why."
Eddie Cantor (1892-1964)
Buzz.
Buzz. Buzz. That is what you may be feeling inside of you if you are
hooked on adrenaline. Your wake in the morning, so tired. You wonder if
you slept last night. You hit the snooze button at least 3 times before
crawling out of bed and hitting the shower. You go to get dressed, and
again spot the clock. Oh no! You are already late, and the day has hardly
begun. Boom. There is your first blast of adrenaline. A kick in the
pants, and you are speeding your way through the rest of the morning. You
have stopped at the gas station for a tall order of the morning java...the
thicker the better. Now you are really “on”.
Busy.
Busy. Busy. You are flying through your day. A couple of things have
happened. You realize that you forgot to turn in your report by the big
deadline. Now you are not feeling good about yourself, and your inner
critic is going wild. How to fix this? You need to get into high gear,
get on the ball, and get your fanny moving. “No more slacking”, you say.
Adrenaline surge number two coming right up, as you take charge of
life....so you think!
You are
late for your first three appointments, and your clients are not happy. You
over promise and say, that will never happen again. You try to make up with
smooth talk and extras. Your sweating. Time for your next
appointment....and you haven’t left your self a buffer. You go speeding
down the highway, loving the rush, and you make it on time. Surge number
three....and look how that works for you....you are on time. Ok, almost on
time. Five minutes late doesn’t count.
It’s about 3pm. You need a
huge cat nap. Actually you could be done for the day. Wiped. Waxed.
Whooped. What is going on? With all of that energy, didn’t you get
anything accomplished? Didn’t you enjoy your day? Don’t you feel great?
Probably not. The truth of
the matter is, adrenaline is a drug. It makes us think we are accomplishing
things, when all we are doing is running around trying to clean up after the
messes we have made. It is addictive. It helps divert us from what we
don’t want to handle in our lives. Emotions, fears, and the stuff that is
just too hard to face. It serves a purpose...no kidding.
The problem with running on
adrenaline, is it is a huge block in our success. How can we produce
results when we are not focused, grounded, and on task? How do we get to
the root of what we need to handle personally and professionally when we are
wearing the mask of adrenaline, hoping things will just go away. How does
life function at high levels when we are addicted to anything, and it
controls us? If adrenaline is in control of your life, know that it does
not strive for success for you., rather it keep you running frantically in
the other direction.
This
top ten below was originally written by Thomas J. Leonard.
The Top 10 Signs That You're An Adrenaline Addict.
1. You and your body feel
pressure to perform or produce.
2. You arrive at
appointments just in the nick of time or late.
3. You over-promise results.
4. You procrastinate and
then rush to deliver.
5. You are impatient.
6. You speak quickly and
can't slow yourself down without lots of effort.
7. You don't maintain a
healthy reserve of time, money and space for yourself.
8. You are always on to the
next project before this one is done.
9. You require an immediate
response; delays, even expected ones, disturb you greatly.
10. You seek out professions
or situations which will feed your addiction.
So, what to do about it you ask. You need to begin to take
specific actions to kick this adrenaline habit. First things first.
Begin to arrive 10 minutes early for all of your appointments, work and
personal. Make sure you have a buffer of time when you are scheduling your
week, so you can continue to do this.
Being to meditate, or have a period of relaxation. Your body needs to develop
new habits of slowing down and becoming grounded. Give yourself time to adjust,
you may feel withdrawal, or at least a sense of perceived “boredom”. Do other
things to take really good care of yourself, take walks, long baths, read, or
just hang out and get some fresh air.
The
big step: Make a list of what you are tolerating in your life. All the stuff,
big and small, that you are putting up with. What you need to realize is that
these things actually “fuel” you. They create friction in your life. They heat
you up and often times trigger adrenaline to flow in your body, and anxiety to
go into high gear. Pay attention...these tolerations can be really subtle. A
dripping faucet, and phone that is not working quite right, the stack of paper
in your office from 1998 and 1999. Handle what you need to, to make space for a
clearer, more peaceful life.
Choose your “choices” carefully. The more you can focus on simplifying your
life, the less stress you will have.
Peace,
Lori Hamann
About the Author:
Lori Hamann, MSE is an international life coach and author. She is the
creator of several transformational courses including The Butterfly
Experiment which she is most known for. She authors the Evolve Your Life
Ezine. Visit her at
Evolve Life Coaching ŠLori Hamann
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